lilredbeesh

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I think she's a little more concerned with getting herself a bentley...yes he should pay child support...the government needs to come up with a system of vouchers...like the WIC program...so the parent who has custody can't spend the money except on things for their children! As far as her not being able to pay bills...um get a job?!! Isn't that what ppl do?

TWISTED_METAL

Sounds to me he ain't taking care of his business ...
Nah, that fool need to handle his business as a father and finance his kid's needs so his kid can better himself and survive in this world.... I mean no amount of money can compensate for having someone there to be at your football games and teach you how to me a man... We have too many young black boys growing up without fathers in this country adding to the endless cycle of angry black men being incarcerated and clueless ... He need to step up and handle his and be there for that boy that's a shame....

lilredbeesh

^^^agreed...i just think she wants a bentley, and for him to pay her living expenses (bills) granted there's a child that lives with her...but she needs to be able to afford to live w/o relying on the child support...child support should only be for the child is what i'm trying to say

TheLaurynDoll

I agree with both of you.

I also don't agree with laying down with anyone without protection that you don't trust to take care of theirs. Yea, he's supposed to be a father-TRUE. But $2000 a month is MORE Than rent money... especially in the A. I lived off less than that a month... with others in my home... She wants to get some cash off this for herself as well. I wonder what would happen if Joc decided to take full custody?

lilredbeesh

^^^yup, I remember when my parents got divorced...my dad's payments were around 950 a month and that was for two children...we didn't suffer at all, always had the necessities as well as the extras (namebrand clothing, supersoakers, videogames, bikes etc.) and lived in a nice home in douglas county...that's why it bothers me to see some of these women acting like these payments aren't enough...they just want to usurp

FlyingLeons

He may want to pay but ole girl is playing games. The family justice system is something else

mrmckoy

He says he never missed a payment.

I dunno. Who cares?

FlyingLeons

With our justice system, I can actually believe him. There are women who will swear the baby is starving and the court will grant her with an increase of chid support.

Miss Nikki

I agree with some things so far ... I am a single parent of 2 boys 14 and 11. I have always provided for my sons no matter if dad was providing or not. I dont think they should make 'vouchers' for child support simply because taking care of a child doesnt mean buying sneakers and an outfit. It means the rent/mortgage has to be paid .. along with utilities and food .. medical .. extra curricular activities like band .. sports .. etc. Special events like movies, dances, etc ... And in some places you HAVE to have a vehicle to get around to places like work, school, doctor appts, etc.

I see that some people think that youre ONLY supposed to get the KIDS things with child support payments. If so, what if we had no electricity .. or no where to live. Then that would make me a bad parent. Im not saying he should totally pay for everything, but if he was making more money than her, he should pay more. Before I came to the A, I was making more money than baby daddy so his payments was close to nothing because they take some of his expenses into consideration. So now that im here, and still looking for work, I think he should pitch in a bit more. Fair is fair... and I know sometimes chicks spend the child support money on bull**** and not the kids ... but others shouldnt suffer because of dumb broads like that ...