Random Thoughts II - Page 3

Random Thoughts II · 06-01-2007

That old thread was lovely... but now we start afresh!

- We dont' have local channels here. You have to get a satellite and pay for them.

- My landlord (former landlord, exsqueeze me), is going to reap exactly as she sows.

- I've learned that almost all things in which we experience conflict, anxiousness, etc., all stem from our personal apprehension that these things conflict and take away from out maximal pleasure. If you learn to accept things as they are, without expecting anything, and accepting what someone or something is for face value, you'll be fine. It's all mental.

- Several people have called me ugly and I don't care. The reason is simple... I've already agreed... and I already don't really care that I agree.

- I'm a week late. I hate when that happens.

SinistA · 06-01-2007

For the first time in my life i feel like good things are happening to me all across the board.
For the first time in my life i feel like i am actually.. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. blessed?

I have always lived to see others around me happy, it lead to me being relatively unhappy and not bothering to change my status, now my status has changed due to one choice that i made.

The down side is, that while my life has taken off in a positive direction, my brothers has just hit a negative spiral, he and his wife are getting divorced, they have an 18 month old daughter together and i find myself in a precarious position. I was always the one of the three boys who was single, i was the youngest and was always the tag along for many, many years. Now suddenly i'm on the other side of the line, i'm the one in the relationship and my brother is the one always wanting to organise things with me.
I know that this situation ain't easy on him, but i don't know how to keep balance between the time spent with my girl and the time spent with my brother. It's the first time i have ever looked at this aspect of their lives from this perspective before, it makes me respect my brothers and what they did for me when i was younger, it also makes me feel guilty when my brother invites me to hang somewhere and i can't go because i already have plans with my girlfriend.

I want to help my brother to get through a tough period of transition in his life but i don't know how to go about it.

TheLaurynDoll · 06-01-2007

Sin,
Congratulations!

I suggest that you just give your brother the support, space, and attentive ear he may need. I've never experienced divorce firsthand, but for the most part, I would imagine you would have to go on your knowledge of who your brother is... and how he copes with things. Let that assist you in how to best help him...

TWISTED_METAL · 06-01-2007

My days on this board soon come to a end it's time to wrap it up ...
I got caught in class trying to be sneaky with a extra credit project ...
Work is finally working out okay ..

Locutus 2.0 · 06-02-2007

If San really bothered Juanita... she'd put him on Ignore... if I remember correctly... she made a post or something saying "I love San"...

I didn't know Juanita was preggers... congrats San.

Maaarf · 06-02-2007

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Originally Posted by Locutus 2.0

I didn't know Juanita was preggers... congrats San.

Wow Loc said something that had a stench of funny to it , not the usual smell of failure! Good work man!

lilredbeesh · 06-02-2007

i am coming down with an illness...my temples be all hot and ish...my throat is sore...ugh

i hope this beer i'm drinking will help me get better...

i crashed my car on the way to work this morning...lol

i was already an hour late when i left the house, so i decided not to speed this time...

i'm going to enroll in school soon...probably take up journalism...

i'd love to be a sports analyst on espn or sum ish...

i'm having a pretty shiity day...but i'm alive

this is probably karma for ridin around like i'm the shiit b/c my car ain't have no dents lol

i'm going to smoke a blunt and play some madden now to ease my mind

deuces