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Men may not want to admit it, but a woman they truly care about cheating on them is one of the biggest blows to an ego you can get. Women are without question sneakier in covering up their dirt than men, and often will go about things like nothing is wrong. So how can you tell that your girl is up to no good? Check out the warning signs.
7. She all of a sudden becomes a social networker.
If you have been in a relationship with your girl for a while, and she had no true interest in Facebook, Twitter, etc, then odds are if she is now on FB, and making alot of new male friends, something might not be kosher. You may question her on her friends, and she may say they are old friends from past jobs/school/etc, but still take notice.
6. Shes does status updates on the relationship.
If your girl did number 7 on this list, than number 6 may be a given. When you have an argument, and she then updates her status on her Myspace/Facebook/Twitter to let her friends know indirectly about it, beware. I can’t tell you how many friends of mine that have told me their girl has done status updates, only to have male friends chime in with comments that any boyfriend wouldn’t appreciate. A communication breakdown in your relationship is clear here.
5. She acts out of character.
If your girl normally would text or call a couple times a day, but all of a sudden she is texting or calling your more frequently, don’t be alarmed. However, if she calls, and you don’t answer, and she follows up with stalker-like texts asking “What are you doing”, or “Why didnt you pick up”, be careful.
4. She’s Edgy.
An insecure woman will often reflect her feelings in how she communicates with you. It may be due to stress from her job, or other issues going on in her life. When the trouble is coming from your relationship, things just won’t “feel” right around each other. Go with your gut instinct.
3. You seem to fight more than ever.
When you can’t chalk up arguments to being “her time of the month”, and they seem to be about petty things, tread lightly. Your girl may be just number 4 (edgy), which ties into this one.
2. She starts doing new things.
If your girl was/is a homebody, and all of a sudden, she has a desire to go out with your girls all the time, something is probably up. Girls will lie for their own all the time, so don’t trust anything her friends say regarding what they are up too. To be fair, guys do it too, but this list is about your girl.
1. The sex falls off.
If your girl used to be a porn star in the bed, and now she’s not in the mood as much, watch out. As a O.G once told me, “If you aren’t doing something for your woman, chances are another man is”. That covers basically everything.
01-20-2010
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