Nice Guys Are Becoming Obsolete In 2005

Nice men are becoming obsolete, and in which case they are not sought after in 2005. I've come to that sad conclusion as I turn 22 in less than a month and a few ... What should I do? Should I give into what the world wants and become "so hood" and "so street" as so many women find appealing these days. I wonder sometimes, or shall I stand tall and push foreward as I am; nonetheless, tough and aggressive when need be by choice rather than the only option known. I who is loving, open, understanding, and creative as primary to whoever I should meet will continue. I knew a day would come when I would have to make a choice in order for my life of relationships and happiness to flourish and grow. I sometimes feel as if I weren't designed for this world, so different and alone I can feel at times. Is it really my fault for the way I was raised to be. I was taught to be respectful, to listen, honor, be God fearing, strong when need be, and to follow the rules and the laws of the land with discretion. If indeed chivalry by the way of the world in which real men should treat women is dead, I too die along with it because I have no purpose.

Something I wrote a while back ...... I was just feelin' it

Peace!

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"Stole it Back"

Visual Viagra

*speechless*

Dmoney1

Bump, Damn I feel you dog, maybe it's time I became an ass and I beat you more women would be on my nuts.

toslane1

I feel you, Twisted.
This goes hand in hand with something Locutus wrote.
The sad thing is: that after a woman has 4-5 kids, pu**y is all worn out, and her shape becomes less appealing. THEN, the "nice guy" becomes appealing.
By then, he's accomplished a few things, and has a choice re: garding who he wants to be with. Then, he's called "stuck up" and "funny style" when he doesn't WANT. the "former hood rat" who clowned him in high school.

TWISTED_METAL

*GASP*

is that a good or bad thing ....?

thanks for the replys folks

KINGRAY

Wow... The Nice Ones They Not Gone They Are Just Hidden In The Sea Of What A Woman These Days Want. If You Look At Some Of These Guys Then You Would See That Some Of Them Are Just Faking It To Get A Girl. I See It Like This If She Can Not See The King In Front Of Her Then She Is Not The Black Queen See Need To Be Or Says She Is. That’s What I Think Any Way.

Speak2free

True and not ture,toslane1!!!

But first off let me say, nice read twistedmental.....

Anyway, it's always about the nice guy! What about the nice girl? The one who gets looked over also, b/c she is not Halle Berry material....there are a lot of women, who don't have children, [worn out *****'s as you said] who are not over weight, but who don't have a coke bottle shape either, intelligent, but not super square...that get the boot, by 'NICE GUYS' that spend their lives fantasizing about eating a MF azz rather than finding a woman who is capatiable to him, that can fill up his hole of loneliness.....

Truth is, men are men and, they think almost the same, rather he is nice or naughty......the 'nice guy' who is fat/boney, not so attractive, corky, shy desiers the same kind of woman, as the fine, muscular, out going guy does.....don't believe me? Then how come in the movies, the weirdo who is doing the kidnapping, or who is obsessed w/ a chick, it's always over the pure beautiful girls, thats dissing him?

The only fat chicks that I've ever seen kidnapped in the movies, were in 'Silence of the Lambs'....LMAO....anyway, I'm not dissing you 'nice guys'...but just giving you a heads up, on whats up....re-evaluate your priorities maybe....stop thinking thatthe only women, who could appreciate you, are centerfold types, or has been baby mama's, or those whom have seem to be hit w/ an ugly stick ....there are average women out here, who are looking for an average man, and aint nothing wrong w/ being average, long as, you cool, w/ you!!!

TWISTED_METAL

Thanks for the comments ...

TWISTED_METAL

Aww man I remember this .. damn back in '05 ..

IMAX

Dude, that ish is tight. I can definitely relate...