SummerLove84

well that is VERY true. I don't mean don't think of others but when it comes to a decision that will obviously weight more upon your life than another then yes I do believe in doing what is necessary for yourself and letting others not only try to accept it but respect the fact that you are handling your business and making sure that your life and whatever is in its vicinity stays in order. I think of others as well, but when making a decision regarding another do you try to make it in their best interest or do you do it by what YOU think is in their best interest by their actions or saying so?

Its like with children...they don't know what's good for them, but they know what they may want for that moment or what sounds good or what "looks" good. We learn from an early stage that you should research and think before you make decisions but being impulsive whether extremely impulsive or just sporadically still is just a normal human trait that we experience everyday.

But thinking of what's best for you allot of times automatically concerns others because they have entered into your world and have an impact enough to consider them subconsciously.